This is Stacey B, The Blogger from ABC's 20/20 special on The Bachelor and RBR.com Critic at Large

Monday, January 30, 2012

Skinny Dipping with a Model: Initial Thoughts on Puerto Rico Episode...

Que fabuloso!!  This was one of the best episodes in Bachelor history.  What wasn't to love?  Beautiful, wonderful Puerto Rico, a competitive ball game, Courtney dishing out some of the craziest one liners in evil lady history and skinny dipping with a model!

- I have no idea where Blakeley's epiphany came from that she suddenly feels she deserves someone like Ben, but good for her.  My feelings, like Ben, did a 180 for Blakeley tonight as well. Not because of her epiphany - but because my jaw dropped when I saw what a phenomenal ball player she is.  Did you see her catch some of those hits at shortstop?  If Derek Jeter was a stripper, he'd be Blakeley.

- I was 100% sure Emily was history after her "rebound" speech gone awry. It was a horrible attempt at redeeming herself, and she was smart enough to realize it.  Luckily, Ben is smart enough to give her another chance.

- I felt like Ben cheated on the other women and fear he can no longer have a successful relationship with any of the other women once he made the decision to get naked with Courtney.  Picture it: you're Kacie B or Lindzi or Nicki or Emily and you're watching your true love story unfold on national TV after Ben's proposed to you on the finale in some exotic island.  Then on Episode 5 in Puerto Rico, you find out that him and Courtney took a bottle of wine to the beach, after hours, against the rules, threw off their clothing and giggled in delight together under the moonlight while Elyse is off crying on a motorboat somewhere to some overplayed, but awesome David Grey song.  WTF?? I am just waiting for Courtney to drop this bomb on the ladies. Would you stick around if you found out that you're "boyfriend" Ben got naked with Courtney?  Is this part of the rules? It's safe to assume he's making out - but is skinny dipping allowed? And who knows what else they did after that.  The question is - where did the girls think Courtney was during that time and at what point will she clue them all in??  I would be outta there in less than a second.

- I felt bad for Jennifer.  Thought she actually had a shot at being the normal, down to earth type for Ben, but he just didn't seem that interested.  Elyse was just in love with love.  They had a pretty awesome date too, but it was never going to happen.  Nicki is sweet, has perfect skin and should be a Neutrogena model, but not sure she's the one for Ben.

My final thoughts: If Ben can love Kacie B and her frizzy hair in the humidity of Puerto Rico, which he seems to do, I think she may be our winner.  But only if he has already confessed to her about the skinny dipping before he proposes.  Otherwise, she'll hopefully be smart enough to turn him down flat.  As soon as Courtney says, "I bet he's never skinny dipped with a model before..." my skin started to crawl.  Ben fell right into her trap.  I'm not sure I trust him with Kacie B's heart.  I'm starting to feel protective of her and her curly hair.

As always, full post goes up tomorrow night.  No spoilers here please - but I'm intrigued by (1) what is Casey S's tragedy from next week; (2) who supposedly has a boyfriend and (3) sounds like the girls collectively tell Ben not to trust Courtney - will he give the rose? Of course he will.

47 comments:

  1. Laughed a lot at your post .. my husband and I watch together and we laugh our collective heinies off every Monday night. Thank you for blogging!

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    1. Thanks, Sarah! The Husband and I cracked up at almost everything Courtney said. She is so conniving, it's becoming comical.

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  2. Love your insight. This is the first time in Bachelor history that I have loathed a participant. All I can think is, "Thank goodness Ashley picked the other guy." Ben is such a tool if he chooses Courtney over these other women. I love Kacie B., curly's and all. If Ben chooses Courtney I may have to stop DVRing this show....

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    1. I hear ya, Jerri! Right with you. I highly doubt he picks Courtney. They have made her look so evil - ABC couldn't risk painting her this way if he picks her. Unless he pulls a Jason Mesnick and dumps her at the "After the Final Rose" show and chooses Kacie B. Either way, he's going to have some major explaining to do!

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  3. I have to agree w/ you Stacey B. I am starting to be protective of Kacie B. too. I am to the point where I sincerely hope he doesn't pick her, just to save her the drama. At this point, he deserves Courtney in my mind.

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  4. I feel like if this season would have been on while I was in college that it would've become a drinking game. Chug the rest of your drink every time Courtney says "winning." and take a shot when she does some weird voice or something weird with her lips. Needless to say, I'd be passed out by the rose ceremony.
    I'm becoming a tad protective of Kacie B. too. I don't want her little innocent heart (and frizzy hair) to get hurt. And if Ben does it, well, i may just have to drive to Tennessee and give her a big hug and let her cry it out how stupid Ben was.
    I'm glad to see in the sneak peeks that Ben does question Courtney's intentions. I really hope he wises up at the end. I really hope his sister and mom whacked him upside the head for skinny dipping on national television with a girl like Courtney.
    I just KNEW that Emily was going home tonight. I wonder what happened with Jennifer? Too much of a friend connection rather than a love connection? I'm sure we'll find out on The Women Tell All. I think I heard the consecutive gasp around America (at least the East Coasters) when he said Emily's name rather than Jennifer's.
    Oh, ABC, how you've hooked me again after I swore to not watch another drama filled season!

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    1. Ben's decision at the Rose ceremony was predictable if you assume he uses looks and physical attraction as his most important trait. All the remaining girls are skinny and hot. His m.o. is choosing some avg girls on one on ones like Brittney and Jennifer, just to want to confirm there's no attraction. (Brittney was smart enough to deny him the right to kick her off.) He's also kicked off physically unattractive ones like Jaclyn and the feinting Erika. (Denied both of them the one remaining rose)

      I don't knock Ben for keeping the hottest girls, but it goes to show he is immature, superficial and not ready to get married.

      If Emily or Kasie B still can't figure this out about Ben, then they will get hurt. Both of them seem more concerned about wanting Ben to love them as opposed to realizing that Ben is simply a guy being a guy who does not even know himself what qualities a future wife would find important. (Hint: Going skinny dipping with Courtney not high on that list.)

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  5. Yeah, too bad he picks Courtney and is now engaged to her.. and Casey S. has a boyfriend back home and gets kicked off by Chris. BLAHHH

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    1. If Ben really picks Courtney then he is the biggest idiot ever! If they ever had kids, they'd have to start tweezing their eyebrows at birth! Courtney is ugly and Ben looks like a Neandrathal man. Yikes for their offspring!

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  6. It's kind of funny they chose to stay on Vieques. The US dropped so many bombs on that place for target practice that half the island is off limits due to safety concerns and pollution. It's almost as nasty and polluted as Courtney's greasy forehead! That woman is one big, greasy sociopath.

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  7. I'm happy for blakely to be able to open up. I hope she realizes that she is better than be a stripper!

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  8. I'm done with the show! It has lost everything for me. I think that he since he had an intimate relationship with courtney that of course he has a stronger connection and more I think he will realize the tenderness of the other girls and choose courtney t of respect to them. I just hour he doesn't propose.

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  9. I don't think courtney is funny she is just a bitch. They deserve each other ben thinks with his sick and that is all she wants. The other girls are real and deserve better! Love kacie b.

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  10. I think Kacie B hit the nail on the head when she said that Courtney is just "in it to win it"! She never talks about having feelings for Ben or that she'd really like to get married and have a family... find love... blah, blah, blah, like the rest of the girls. It would be such a shame for him to choose her. But, judging from the previews it kind of looks like Lindzi and Kacie B at the end... one could only hope. He and Kacie have had sparks from the beginning and I think she would be his best choice... Like others here, I think I would lose what respect (and sympathy) I had for him in Ashley's season if he were to choose Courtney.... I guess men do only think with one part of their body!

    Da-Man side of our home. Courtney is out of his league. Ben is a weannie! Kaci B is the best option, but she needs a real man.

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    1. "I guess men do only think with one part of their body!"

      I think this is why no man has been successful on the Bachelor! They always go with the hot/crazy and not the down home good girl..... ALWAYS!

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  11. Oh boy. I hope Ben admits collectively to the remaining women that he skinny dipped with that girl. That was a bad move.

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  12. I love your blog! Thia is my first time here so I read up on all your previous Bachelor blogs, I was laughing and loving it all. I was thinking tonight "What is up with Kasey B's hair?". Anyhow I felt so bad for Jennifer, I adored her and did not see her going home... over Kasey S, REALLY? I thought they made a cute couple! Each time Courtney is on the screen I want to scream. And for the record mt husband thinks she is a nut job and unattractive, she does really funny things with her mouth all the time.....

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    1. Susie from PhillyJanuary 31, 2012 9:04 AM

      I and my two daughters have the same hair as Kasey B. We get compliments all the time, especially from women of color. My husband, who watches the show with me, keeps asking, "Why do these women all look alike?" - of course, except for Kasey B!!

      Needless to say, I LOVE HER HAIR! I keep reminding myself that the producers are only showing us what they want us to see. If I hear the words "awesome" or "journey" on more time...well, you understand, right?

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    2. I do love her hair too! I was just shocked because I did not think she had curly hair, and then every episode its getting curlier and curlier! But I love her, I no longer think Ben deserves her.

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  13. I really like your blog and appreciate your writing several times during the week. You are a good writer and analyst. Courtney! This girl needs some serious help. What girl who has an ounce of confidence, self-awareness, pride, or common sense allows herself to be filmed as she was in this episode that will follow her in life forever! Disappointed is not a strong enough word for what happens with Courtney and Ben! There are several girls this season who seem to be a reasonable match for Ben's long term happiness, but I am not at all sure Ben realizes that. His decision tonight to skinny dip with Courtney probably cost him a future with any of
    the other girls.

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    1. Thanks, Anon!

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    2. I agree. The program went over the line to show this and let it happen. I don't even want to watch anymore. Ben was stupid if he thinks this will be OK. It's not.

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  14. Awwwww I hate Courtney even more now!!! She is EVIL!!! I do feel like he "cheated" on the other girls....when he was talking to the girls on the cocktail party I felt like they were all being played!!! He couldn't even concentrate...he was probably just thinking about what he did with Courtney. And they probably did much more!!!! I hate her!!!!

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  15. I am sad for Ben's lack of maturity and good judgment. I, too, am a Kacie fan - as a UT grad, just about have to be, anyway - and that skinny dipping was absolutely too much. Agree that sd is fun - but either solo or after more than a few days "together" and surely not where a future wife would see it on national tv - maybe after a romantic proposal. SO sorry and pathetic...sigh.

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  16. My gut feeling unfortunately is that he ends up with nasty Courtney....otherwise he never would have gone skinny dipping with her....Who does that on national tv!!!!!...I love Kacie for him.....hair and all....but sorry...it's not looking good for her...everyone else should just go home...it's between these 2 at this point!

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  17. i don't understand how ben could send shawntel home because he "would lose any trust he had with the women" but have an intimate relationship with courtney! like that's going to help the women trust him. and what a slim-ball to let them go through an entire cocktail party without telling them. i loved ben in ashley's season, but can't wait for his season to be OVER. (although i'm not too excited about emily as the bachelorette - love her, but just over her, ready for someone new) i hope he does pick courtney now...the other women deserve WAY better.

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    1. Good point about his reason for letting Shawntel go and then what he ends up doing with Courtney.

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  18. Courtney has revealed to the world her true character. She is evil all the way. Its sad that Ben has fallen into her manipulation trap with her little baby voice that she probably still puts on to her own family whenever she wants to get her way. If Ben and Courtney met in the real world, they would never make a true connection. I think she belongs with Charlie Sheen with all her 'winning' talk. The constant pursing of her lips she does when shes not around Ben would definately turn him off. She may be pretty in pictures but her character makes her disgusting. If Ben is so into her then why is he even on the show? He'll never find love with that weirdo. If the other girls ever find out about the skinny dipping, they should run the other way because only a man lacking in character would have done that and I think they all deserve better than that.

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  19. Did anyone tell Courtney that this is not a game show? You don't win a prize at the end honey, you win a relationship that would never work out anyway because you are a little devil, so have fun being scorned by every decent person in America.

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    1. Wondering if she's being paid to act this way for ratings!

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  20. I cannot figure out Ben. I don't find him attractive in addition. Why did he let jennifer go. I think he was a nerd in HS and was taken with Courtney's model looks and ways - he has never had a "mean girl" so why not now. Maybe he will be stupid enough to choose her. He seems like he's having a ball on the show and is very cheesy. I didn't like Ashley either - maybe they should've ended up together. What do these girls see in him?

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  21. Great post! Very funny.
    Taylor
    www.thedailytay.com

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  22. Love the blog. But where did you get the idea that someone has a boyfriend? From watching the previews on Courtney drama? It looked to me like Chris H was comforting Casey. I'm guessing a family member passes away.

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    1. Hi Anon: the information came from a Tweet from @BachelorABC saying that "soon it will be revealed that one of the girls has a boyfriend..."

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    2. Ahh, gotcha! Thanks for the info :-)

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  23. I absolutely cannot stand Courtney. I am a counselor and I think this girl has serious psychological issues..she has a warped personality and I am starting to really hate her.

    I loved Emily at first but she blew it and I bet you all that the producer's made Ben keep Emily for ratings..I lost a lot of respect for Ben this week, not that I had much to begin with..he was making out with Jennifer in one scene then he sends her home..don't kiss her if you don't like her!

    Also..when Ben sent Elyse home on the date, did he really need to pick up the rose and taunt her with it? Her face lit up when he picked it up and then he crushed her..that was just wrong..

    Ben is an ugly doof who probably never got any action in high school and is making up for it now..if you pick Courtney then you deserve her..

    What's the deal with Jamie? We never see her and never hear anything from her yet he keeps her??

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  24. I am with you Stacey on this finally being an entertaining episode. Instead of my comments this week I am going to post my husbands. Mind you this is in between his game of Angry Birds and I am pretty intently watching show, so might not have quotes exactly correct. Who has time for the husband when Ben and his bachelorettes are on ?!?!?!?

    (1) When Ben sent Aylse home: "He doesn't pull any punches, he has some balls"

    (2) Snickering at Courtney's one liners

    (3) When Courtney approaches Ben about skinny dipping: "Guess he isn't gay"

    (4) More laughing at Courtneys' comments

    (5) In regards to Jaime: "Who is that?"

    (6) Look of utter disbelief at Courtney's mean statements about Alyse

    (7) Listening to Emily make the same mistake: "She is going home"

    and (8) which made my heart sing, in regards to interaction with Kacie B: "Looks to me like he has found his girl"

    I have liked Kacie B since the beginning, what is not to like? I also LOVED hearing in the previews when she said "You can't fool him honey" - wonder who that was directed at???

    Disappointed Ben made the choice he did with Courtney, but heres to hoping he came clean with whomever he chose before proposal and they worked it out.

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  25. Maybe this has already been covered, but how about Courtney's not-so-subtle "I do" when she accepts the rose. Like she's planting the proposal seeds in poor little Ben's brain. Can't remember a more talented meanie in Bachelor history.

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  26. Taking my lunch break in front of my computer to read my favorite reality blog. Looking forward to your recap! I also feel like Ben cheated on the other women when he skinny dipped with Courtney. I hope that the women that were sent home saw last night's episode and are grateful that they didn't get engaged to him. It was disrespectful. I'm sure his sister gave him some sh-- (she seemed surprised when he said he was kissing!), and maybe his intimidating mother just gave him a silent, disapproving glare, while shaking her head slowly.

    My husband thinks Courtney is way too skinny. He said she looked sickly in her bathrobe when Ben walked with her down to the beach. Sick in the head, maybe!

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  27. That's it!!!! Ben's made up his mind.... Courtney is "winning"!!!! There is NO WAY that if he cared at least a little bit for the other girls he would do that!!!! They both deserve each other!!!! I feel so soooorrry for all the other women!!!! =(

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  28. Courtney definitely has a personality disorder of some sort. I'm no expert on pyschology, but there is something fundamentally wrong with how she behaves. I'm sure she has run this exact game on many a man before and there will be many to come.

    I'm rooting for Kacie B all the way! She was my favorite since the second I saw her! Although, she may be better off with someone that would not even entertain the idea of Courtney...

    Thank you for this blog--it is a great read.

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  29. Love your blog Stacey! This is my first time posting, but I just have to...

    I seriously seriously seriously don't get why everyone thinks Courtney is so gorgeous? (even before her sociopathic behavior). I think she is very unattractive compared to some of the other ladies, actually just in general. I do like Kacie B! Although, I really think she is too good for him.

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  30. I'm new at replying: just another anonymous. But obviously, 99% of the viewing audience thinks Courtney is a psychopathic manipulator (redundant?), as do I. But I have another question no one has addressed:
    Why is Ben on Jimmy Kimmel, The Chew, Ellen, etc. If he has proposed, why isn't he holed up in a hotel room with his fiancee watching the show every Monday? We have never seen other Bachelors or Bachelorettes on talk shows until after the Final Rose. SO, did Ben NOT propose?

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    1. Great question. I've been wondering the same thing!

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    2. Didn't Ashley Hebert also go on Jimmy Kimmel all the time as well? Her season still ended in a proposal.

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  31. I felt like when Ben went skinny dipping with Courtney he did cheat on the other girls. I think you hit it right on by saying that. He is being dishonest, he is being two faced and he is just flat out lying. My opinion of this so-called sweet, down to earth, wine maker really dropped after he did that, I thought his standards were a little higher. Shame on him, he should know better, how would that make the other girls feel if/when they find out what he did, REALLY BAD I THINK. At the end he says he is staying open with the girls! WHAT A JOKE! He is pathetic and he is lying. I think Ben and Courtney deserve each other because the other girls are too good for him.

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  32. I thought that Ali F. was on Jimmy K. during her season. My guess is that Ben lives in CA., is not really employed at a 9-5, and hey, he wants to promote himself as much as possible- brand identification for his wine and all. He could still be seeing his girl (if anyone would have him after his romp with Courtney)and doing the rounds of promos. Also maybe his ratings are so low that the network is paying him to make more appearances to drum up interest in his season.

    You know, I really wasn't initially annoyed with the skinny dipping. I mean, it was at night, and there was a crew around filming them. I figured that they would just swim around and splash in the waves a bit- maybe lean in for a kiss. But when Courtney leaped onto Ben in the water, well, that was a little too much soft porn for a reality dating show. Granted, the water may have been too "cold" for Ben, but really she was acting pretty skanky!

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